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Health & Healing
In its rituals, lessons, and shared wisdom,
the kola nut offers deep insights into life and
the human condition, serving as a compass
guiding us toward wholeness, happiness, and
authentic living.
Among many African communities, offering
a kola nut is an act of profound hospitality
and respect. Breaking the kola nut is an
opening ritual, a call to prayer, unity,
and reflection. It is often used to invoke
blessings, welcome guests, and consecrate
communal gatherings. Through its sharing,
the kola nut embodies a philosophy of
communion—an affirmation that life is best
experienced in connection with others.
The simplicity of this act reminds us that
small gestures, rooted in genuine care,
have the power to transform relationships.
Sharing the kola nut signifies inclusion,
the dissolution of barriers, and the building
of trust, all of which are deeply needed in
today’s divided and tumultuous world.
The kola nut teaches profound truths about
life and relationships, rooted in the principles
of kindness, gratitude, and self-discovery.
Here are some key insights:
1. Happiness Lies in Sharing and Building
Others Up
The act of sharing the kola nut is a metaphor
for life’s deeper truth: true happiness comes
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from uplifting others, not tearing them
down. Exploiting or belittling others only
leads to emptiness. By nurturing compassion
and finding joy in others’ successes, we
contribute to our collective well-being.
2. Gratitude is the Foundation of
Fulfillment
Just as the kola nut ceremony begins with
gratitude—thanking ancestors, the land,
and the present gathering—we are called to
recognize and celebrate the blessings in our
own lives. Focusing on what we lack leads
to dissatisfaction, but gratitude anchors us in
contentment and abundance.
3. Authenticity Brings Freedom
The kola nut ritual reflects the beauty of
simplicity and being oneself. Life becomes
a frustrating endeavor when we try to please
everyone. Instead, embracing authenticity
allows us to live with integrity and
confidence, free from the weight of others’
expectations.
In today’s world, negativity often
overshadows kindness. Criticizing others’
looks, choices, beliefs, and successes has
become a pastime in a world hungry for
bad news. The kola nut ceremony offers a
counter-narrative: what truly matters is how
we treat others.
Practicing kindness does not mean sacrificing
your well-being—it means understanding