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          Consider Marriage



          or Slavery?





           Robert Macharia






                   xchanging vows in a big   well respected. Older women were
                   wedding ceremony is       honored. They were regarded as
                   probably every child’s    goddesses, givers of life. On the
          Edream in Afrika. It is            other hand, men were warriors,
          in our DNA that as Afrikans we     while the elders were destiny helpers
          enjoy big and flashy things. We love   oozing with wisdom. Something     The author is a mentor, trainer and writer bear-
          to dance, hosting big parties and   went wrong from the beginning        ing adequate experiences in business development
          donning elegant clothes. We are nat-  which compromised our place in                 and brand management success.
          urally fun people, since we love our   this beautiful continent preserved
          food, drinks, songs and drums. With   by our ancestors with their blood.    LinkedIn:linkedin.com/in/robertmmwangi
          that in mind, my main question is;   Though it all, God still ensured that
          who started destroying us? Where   our ancestors multiplied, even in   ing women was never their thing.
          did the bad apples fall after shaking   slave trades which were transacted   Mistreating a woman would be
          the tree?                          through harsh conditions. That     interpreted as a sign of weakness,
                                             means, we are natural beings that are   because women were naturally re-
          Afrikans love big families, that is   chosen and anointed. Unfortunately,   spectful and sober decision makers.
          the reason why the majority tend   the colonial system of mistreating   During the same period, Afrikan
          to despise birth control. During   each other was imposed on us. For   men would provide food for their
          our ancestors’ time, women were    the original native Afrikans mistreat-  families mentor their sons, and



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