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Community






          DEALING WITH SOCIETAL TRAUMA



          A CASE FOR THE AFRIKAN BOYCHILD












          The other day my husband said      started with seeking to understand   vision, and their mission in life,
          to me that people don’t often cal-  what the Kingdom looks like. That   outside our social addictions that
          culate what it means to live out   is why I ended up in a seminary,   restrict our societies and families.
          your mandate in fullness, what     and the only lecture I heard about   So, when a person comes and asks
          it looks like when you go to the   the Kingdom was by a certain lady   me, “What do you think I should
          streets. Because your experiences   who was fired after that semester   do?” My question to that person is,
          on the ground can actually wear    because I think she knew her thing,   “What are you here for?” Because
          you out, they can cause you to     and I don’t know what happened.    if you’re able to answer that ques-
          pause, they can even cause you     Then after that, I did International   tion, then you will not be seeking
          to shrink back from the purpose    Relations and Security Studies just   to know what you need to do from
          that you are meant to be living    to understand global politics and   other people, because everything is
          out. There is a price that has to   how they affect domestic politics,   in you by design.
          be paid, there’s a sacrifice to be   international political economy, and
          made.                              security.                          Yeah, that’s awesome. I com-
          But when we engage ourselves                                          pletely agree. Now, having
          and make the sacrifice, the im-    Understanding Afrika, Afrika’s role   known you for a few years, I
          pact that our lives can have on    in global affairs, then I combined   know you have a very serious
          just one person or an entire com-  that with psychology; how people   passion for transforming young
          munity of  people is monumental.   behave. Actually I really wanted to   men’s hearts and impacting them
          Today we are speaking to John      take anthropology. But I think I will.   in a really positive way. Could
          Wills Njoroge, one man who has     But the most important thing for   you tell us a bit about that and
          made up his mind that he’s going   me is to understand how the world   the why behind it?
          to focus on transforming the       functions outside the box.         Actually, the drive is an empowered
          hearts and minds of  young men                                        and dignified continent, a story that
          and families in Kenya and Afrika,   Okay. So if  I can just go there a   was born through my experiences in
          in order to bring about a change   little bit, what is your fascination   life by, and I have, I would say three
          that is genuinely transformative,   with the way things were and      players in that story. One is an elder-
          and genuinely from the root of     why exactly are you so interested   ly lady, and then two men. So, the
          the community, not superficial.    in how things work and how they    two men, one of them is my former
          Thank you so much John for         interrelate?                       high school principal, who got to
          joining us, and thank you for giv-  I think that, for me, the most    know that I didn’t have a father.
          ing us this opportunity to spend   important thing is getting people   And he became a father. So, he told
          time with you today.               to look at the boxes that they are   me, “Anything you need, just let me
          Thank you, I appreciate it.        in, you know that thing of thinking   know. I’m here for you.” Now that
                                             outside the box. And sometimes     story came from a situation where
          We’re really grateful. Please      they find it hard because the only   I was involved in a strike, in school,
          could you tell our audience about   way to think outside the box for   and I was among the students who
          yourself, about your background,   them is embracing the box that they   led the strike. And so he called
          and your experience and train-     are in. What I find fascinating, for   me and said, “You know, if I kick
          ing?                               me, is someone who gets to a point   you out of this place, that’s it. And
          My background and training, I      where they’re able to articulate their   there’s no way I’m going to expel


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