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           THE MAN CHILD





           AND THE SEXUALIZATION OF THE GIRL




          Every time I do my emotional dysfunc-  really do not have direct access to
          tion intensive course for men, 70% of    older people who are wise enough
          the attendees confirm that they weren’t   to help the young ones learn wis-  Samuel Phillips
          intentionally taught how to be a good   dom. And why is that? The older
          husband and father. I have committed   ones are mostly also the victims   writer,  photographer,  songwriter  and singer.  As  a
          my life to helping men in this generation   of dysfunctional homes, families   content creator, he is passionate about creating a bet-
          break this cycle.                  living daily by unwise counsel, de-
          We can raise strong,  mature and respon-  cisions, choices and a failed society.   ter image and positive narrative about Afrika.
          sible men to give our world quality lead-  We now have a “modernization”
          ership in every sphere of  life.-Deji Irawo,   situation on our hands, where our
          Chief  Responsibility Officer, X2D TV   young people are raised by social   mentors to know that, right under
          Lagos, Nigeria.                    media influencers and the fake lives   their roof is a disaster brewing and
                                             they live online, virtual mentors   about to explode. So, we speak
                     lot is going on with    who mostly do what they do for     fine English, and drive fine cars,
                     our young people, and   the money, and then the nannies    but we cannot see that right within
                     frankly speaking, they   and house-helps at home who we    our sphere of influence is a beast
          A  not getting the                 have made sure are not so learned   we are feeding and raising to maul
                     are
          much needed help they require to   so they do not ever challenge      our nearest future. We are staking
          cross from the childhood stage into   our choices. Mummy and daddy    the future of our children on the
          adulthood. To say the least, most   are too busy being the very same   pawn shops of our own insensi-
          of our young people right now      social media influencers and virtual   tivity. And to even make matters



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