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ISSUE THREE |  NOV/DEC






























                          MAIDS AND MADAMS



                                                 BY: SAMUEL PHILLIPS


                      ou will please forgive   People on social media lamenting   for her good work in our sister’s
                                            about how things are not  going
                      me if I don’t have a                                      house. So on this day, we thought
                      completely  accurate   so cool  between  them and  their   about it  again but because she
                      perspective   about   maids. One of my beloved sisters    was busy with house chores, we
                      this subject matter.   (she knows herself if she reads    told her we would get  the  things
        YI  have  not  had  a               this and I am sure she will laugh   and bring them to her. She turned
                                            over it) posted recently about how
        direct  experience  with  this,  so                                     down the  offer  saying that  her
        I  might  not be totally correct.   she has trained lots of maids and   madam (our sister) would  think
        However,  permit  me  to  make      they just keep going away only for   she stole them from her house.
        some sense of the situation and     her to start training with someone   I was stunned by that. She went
        also give my own personal opinion   else again. I am not one of those   further to say she has been warned
                                            who join band wagons of popular
        about it.  Just  maybe we all can                                       not to even bring a handbag with
        make some changes based on          stories or narratives and then not   her when she is coming to work.
        the  simple  principle  of  do  unto   think through the entire scenario   Sincerely in my  head, I  was  like
        others (including housemaids)       in  order  to  make  the  appropriate   who cares if you steal everything
        what  you want others  (including   changes needed. The question is     in the house? What if you stealing
                                            what is it really between madams
        housemaids)  to do unto you. We                                         my stuff is how  God will  get to
        will  come  back  to  this  principle   and maids? Sincerely I don’t know   you?  Knowing  that  the  goodness
        shortly.                            this answer, but I think I can try to   of  God  expressed  even  in  our
        I  didn’t  have  the  privilege,  well  if   point our eyes towards something   sin  leads  us  to  repentance.  We
        it’s  really  a  privilege  to  grow  up   just maybe that might help.   managed to  get  her some  things
                                            Let me give you a few scenarios.
        with maids, house helps and stuff.                                      another  way, without breaking
        So I may be very ignorant. Coming   Some months ago, my  wife and       the rules of the house. And mind
        to  Kenya  changed  my  personal    I were at the house of one of our   you, this particular narrative of my
        lifestyle just a bit, ranging from tea   sisters (yes, I have lots of sisters   madam said this and that is almost
        drinking even in the hot weather,   and  brothers). An amazing sister   everywhere  when  it  concerns
                                            I  will say with  an amazing  family
        to wearing double clothes due to                                        maids and madams.  Please stay
        cold weather and then the issue of   to match. She and her family       with me on this article.
        maids or house helps. Particularly   were not home but the maid was     Another aspect is this. Why don’t
        because of the rise of the middle   around. A sweet and loving young    maids  stay? Let me show you
        class of Kenya, the story of house   woman  who always  made sure       another  example.  My  wife  and  I
                                            we got something to eat or drink
        helps  and  the  many  issues  that                                     were at the house of one of my
        come  with  that  never  end.  It’s   whenever we went. My wife and I   mothers,  a  retired  government
        been  a constant thing  I hear      had wanted to take her shopping     official  (I  have  a  few  mothers).
        almost  everywhere,  even  online.   for  a  while  just  to  appreciate  her   In her house she has this not so

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