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Re-Education




      ...A true winner is not the one that   ties supposedly built to correct the   confine their minds to technology
      beats everyone, but the one who has    outcomes of our failed societies   like robots.
      conquered himself. The true winner     than we have instructional facilities,   Mind you, I am not saying that living
                                             where human characters are built
      is the one who has put to death his    before they find themselves in a   in rural areas is the only way to raise
      selfish tendencies and self-centered   society that is already steeped in   healthy kids, neither am I saying that
                                             madness. You will please forgive my
                                                                                living in an urban area is detrimental
      mindset. Such person has learnt        language and expression, but things   to children, but that we have given
      that he is a better person when he     are really bad out there and some-  too much room to strangers and
      makes room for others to be the        one just needs to point it out.    have left our kids at the mercy of
                                                                                those who do not mean well for
      better versions of  themselves.        We must stop putting all our efforts   their spiritual and mental well-being.
                                             in pulling people out of the river   So, we are shocked when the cases
                                             downstream and start making real   of suicide, rape, drug abuse, de-
          motivational speakers tend to say   moves to find out why they are    pression among young people is on
          these half-baked statements, life is   falling in the first place into the river   the increase, but we forget that the
          not a battle with anyone and it’s not   upstream. Reactional standpoints   play-station we bought for them and
          a competition with some seen or
          unseen rivals. Life is a battlefield and   towards life, as we have seen, are not   the movies we allow them to watch
                                             paying well, and we have to change
                                                                                unsupervised are mostly violent. So
          a competition against self. Meaning   those approaches.               we have to go back to the basics and
          that a true winner is not the one that                                really look at what we are doing to
          beats everyone, but the one who has   I do a lot of meditation and mind   our children in the name of expos-
          conquered himself. The true winner
          is the one who has put to death his   adjustments using the simple things   ing them to technology and devel-
                                             I see or understand about nature. A
                                                                                opment.
          selfish tendencies and self-centered   little while ago, something that I had
          mindset. A true winner is the one   never thought about suddenly made   God did not make a mistake when
          who, by experience, has learnt to   sense in my mind.                 the first home He gave to man was
          understand that life is beyond this
          world and the acquisition of things.   I was having a light chat with my   not a tower, skyscraper or even a
                                                                                three bedroom flat, but a garden
                                             wife on new year’s day and we got
          Such person has learnt that he is a   talking about where and how our   that is completely surrounded with
          better person when he makes room   kids will be raised. I think the chat   nature and natural things. And nei-
          for others to be the better versions   began with us commenting on a TV   ther is it a coincidence that the first
          of themselves. He has learnt to take
          responsibility for his actions and   series we were watching about mo-  time man decided to come together
                                                                                and build a city with a tower in it,
                                             dem medicine and how it’s mostly
          won’t pass the blame on to someone   about surgery, reactions and nothing   the result was a global confusion,
          else. He has learnt to understand   much about preventive approach    which is still here with us even till
          that falling on his face is not the end   based on clean and healthy lifestyle.  now.
          of the story, but that picking him-
          self up and building a castle with the   As we had our conversation, it sud-  The truth is that, every living thing
          stone that made him fall is a better   denly made sense that when children   carries a blessing from God, the
          way to end the story. But sincerely   are raised in rural or semi-rural   Creator, and that is simply what
          speaking, none of these beautiful   communities and play with nature   the truth is. For God blessed all
          things will materialize if we are not
          deliberate about how we raise our   or natural things like trees, animals,   He made and called them good. So
                                                                                when we relate with creation and
                                             plants, with each other, they actually
          kids.                              interact with life-giving organisms,   teach our kids to relate with nature,
          I look at the societies that call   as against the ones raised in the   we are actually relating with blessed
          themselves developed and I see the   urban setting who play with lifeless   and living things. So, let us raise our
          madness of their negligence and
          self-centered lifestyles. And because   toys, play-stations and stuff that is   children in blessed and life-giving
                                                                                environments that will help them
                                             mostly created to alter the state of
          Afrikans have decided to follow suit   their minds and thinking. So, instead   understand that they too are life-giv-
          in the wayward attitudes of these   of them interacting with living   ing spirits having a human experi-
          so-called developed nations, we    things that give life, they interact   ence.
          now have more correctional facili-
                                             with dead and lifeless things that


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